It's all around me lately - and it sucks.

From a really good friend of mine:


I'm not having such a good day, XXXX and I talked a little this am. He doesn't respect me and I don't feel desired by him, no passion right now. I feel he is with holding his love.

He has such high expectations on things and I feel he loves me conditionally for what he wants me to become. He talked about separating, and that he thinks maybe we shouldn't be together... ugh! What a shitty thing to say... I told him he takes the easy way out, therefore he doesn't have to work on it. Marriage is for better and worse, but I don't feel loved by him.

I am not sure what to do. I have lots to think about and and will have to talk to him later...

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What can you say really?

I don't know what sucks more - watching my friend be miserable in a relationship she so desperately wants, or watching her decide whether or not it's worth it to continue on.

She's headstrong enough that she will end up deciding for both of them I think.